I'm a scholorship student from Saudi Arabia studying in the Netherlands , im here with other Saudi students and i made some friends , they know i'm Atheist , their fine with it.
But they have a problem with me being around , as they see me as "Unclean" or "Taher" .
So they asked me to do some simple stuff that's related to water , like : not spill water off of my body on their floor or use their towels, cause the water that touches becomes unclean.
i had a conversation with some of them about it and they told me how they feel and do if any water touches me , like cleaning the whole bath room or becoming phobic about an area that water dropped on.
so they want me to "care" for their belief , i told them that's out of my control and that's their belief that makes them do these stuff and they should suck it up. They replied we could disconnect from you and not be friends but we're telling you this because we don't want to do that.
but a question is raised here, why should i care for their belief if they don't care for mine ?
& What would you do if this happened to you ?
But they have a problem with me being around , as they see me as "Unclean" or "Taher" .
So they asked me to do some simple stuff that's related to water , like : not spill water off of my body on their floor or use their towels, cause the water that touches becomes unclean.
i had a conversation with some of them about it and they told me how they feel and do if any water touches me , like cleaning the whole bath room or becoming phobic about an area that water dropped on.
so they want me to "care" for their belief , i told them that's out of my control and that's their belief that makes them do these stuff and they should suck it up. They replied we could disconnect from you and not be friends but we're telling you this because we don't want to do that.
but a question is raised here, why should i care for their belief if they don't care for mine ?
& What would you do if this happened to you ?