iamthedinger
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Recently an intolerant cunt by the name of victoria jackson has been featured on different media outputs because of her comments against any and all things "gay". all of her comments seemed to be geared towards the bible. this american woman seems to have forgotten about what america was founded on in regards to religious freedom and seems to want to persecute people that don't fit into what she sees as "gods plan". i think she should just take the step towards extremist and join the westboro baptist church where she'll undoubtably be welcomed with open arms as she is um a...celebrity...ish. but this post isn't all about this intolerant biotch and more about what thought process her comments seemed to have triggered in my uneducated brain. so here goes..
more often then not, people that speak out against homosexuals always seem to refer to it as a lifestyle choice. since i'm lazy and tend to not look up references to the areas i will try to address i will just express this as a theory that i've developed in my..again uneducated brain..without any actual scientific influence from any study that may have already addressed what i'm thinking.
my thoughts on the matter are this. male and females of presumably all species are attracted to each other through a seemingly complicated process that tends to initially support natural selection. we first see a woman or man that we find attractive. whether it be symmetry of bodily features, or features that we tend to find favorable. i seem to be attracted to women with blonde hair and blue eyes for some reason. after the initial attraction between two individuals, other factors play a role in whether the two end up together or repel each other. these factors can include personality, a pleasing voice, at home lifestyles. i'll use my relationship with my wife as an example of how i became attracted to her.
when i met my wife i found her physically attractive. this wasn't based on her overall physical appearance though, as i met her in basic training, the wear and fit of a military uniform isn't exactly complimentary to a woman's looks...unless you're into that kind of thing. once we started talking to each other, we seemed to pit our personalities against one other and found that we were attracted to each other's dispositions and outlooks on life in general. another thing that i found attractive is her desire to provide and take care of the people she loves. knowing this i knew that she would make a great mother and would take great care in raising a child. this she has proven exponetially (sp?) as she is raising our son while i've been deployed to kuwait. all of these attractions are measurable to anyone who pays attention to them. i paid attention during the entire process of our courtship and our marriage that followed. (5 year anniversary was 3 days ago as of this posting btw) but what isn't measurable is the chemical attraction towards one another.
we know that our bodies give off a natural scent. we use this knowledge to make ourselves smell better through the use of cologne, perfumes, lotions, deoderant, and so on. although we try to mask our natural scent with what we perceive to be more pleasing, we can't ignore the underlying chemicals and how we react to them. of course i'm referring to pheromones. so where the hell am i going with this you might ask? well if you're still following along, please continue to read. and if you have any input for any of this information..references to studies done on the subject, please let me know. i would love to know if my half baked theory actually holds merit.
there must be something in our dna that controls both the output, and reaction to, the pheromones that our bodies omit. so on a genetic level, would a mutation of the gene that controls how we react pheromones cause a person to be attracted to a member of the same sex, not only on a physical level, but a chemical level as well? this whole idea is to understand that not all homosexuals have chosen a lifestyle that makes them favor the same sex. are some people just born with it? i do understand that some people may favor same sex relationships based on prior experience, but if on a genetic level, if someone has a mutation of the gene that controls how are bodies react to members of the opposite sex, that would cause them to be attracted to a member of the same sex.
i almost feel like i'm rambling incoherently...and i blame adhd for that.
basically i'm saying that there has to be something in the bodies chemistry that controls our chemical attraction to other people. some people are born with the reactions that would be seen as typical, meaning attracted to the opposite sex. some people may be born with the reaction of being attracted to the same sex.
i'm not sure how to explain it further...please see my above statement of me being uneducated and lazy. if you understand what i'm trying to say then kudos to me.
where would this fit into natural selection?
well, that's simple enough. if two members of the same sex are attracted to each other and have no interest in the opposite sex, well they won't reproduce under normal circumstances will they? in todays world that doesn't have to be the case as children can be conceived through no sexual contact but in the animal kingdom, this gene wouldn't be passed on to any next generation since gay dogs, for instance, don't have the capability to reproduce through homosexual activities (btw i've seen a gay dog before. the gay dog tries to mount a straight dog and it usually ends with a doggy hate crime...or a hose).
and i'll also say that gay people seem to make great parents. i think this stems from a better understanding of what human love is and better care and love is given to children that are raised by gay parents. at least that's how i've seen it in my experience. if a gay couple does not want to conceive a child through natural or unnatural means, adoption is a popular choice and one that i back completely, since as i stated above, there seems to be a better understanding of our human emotions that control our love and care.
if you've made it this far i'll say in closing..there's nothing wrong with being attracted to members of the same sex...it may even be encoded in your dna.....just don't try to hit on me please :lol: i am very happily married.
oh and if you want jokes...i got jokes.
let them get married! they should have every right to be as miserable as any other married couple in the world! :facepalm:
for references to my education please see the requirements for your state for a GED. i will be attending college but umm...i'm a late bloomer? (also see: doesn't use proper grammar, punctuation, spelling, or capitalization)
and again any input into any type of study that may have been done on this subject is very welcome.
more often then not, people that speak out against homosexuals always seem to refer to it as a lifestyle choice. since i'm lazy and tend to not look up references to the areas i will try to address i will just express this as a theory that i've developed in my..again uneducated brain..without any actual scientific influence from any study that may have already addressed what i'm thinking.
my thoughts on the matter are this. male and females of presumably all species are attracted to each other through a seemingly complicated process that tends to initially support natural selection. we first see a woman or man that we find attractive. whether it be symmetry of bodily features, or features that we tend to find favorable. i seem to be attracted to women with blonde hair and blue eyes for some reason. after the initial attraction between two individuals, other factors play a role in whether the two end up together or repel each other. these factors can include personality, a pleasing voice, at home lifestyles. i'll use my relationship with my wife as an example of how i became attracted to her.
when i met my wife i found her physically attractive. this wasn't based on her overall physical appearance though, as i met her in basic training, the wear and fit of a military uniform isn't exactly complimentary to a woman's looks...unless you're into that kind of thing. once we started talking to each other, we seemed to pit our personalities against one other and found that we were attracted to each other's dispositions and outlooks on life in general. another thing that i found attractive is her desire to provide and take care of the people she loves. knowing this i knew that she would make a great mother and would take great care in raising a child. this she has proven exponetially (sp?) as she is raising our son while i've been deployed to kuwait. all of these attractions are measurable to anyone who pays attention to them. i paid attention during the entire process of our courtship and our marriage that followed. (5 year anniversary was 3 days ago as of this posting btw) but what isn't measurable is the chemical attraction towards one another.
we know that our bodies give off a natural scent. we use this knowledge to make ourselves smell better through the use of cologne, perfumes, lotions, deoderant, and so on. although we try to mask our natural scent with what we perceive to be more pleasing, we can't ignore the underlying chemicals and how we react to them. of course i'm referring to pheromones. so where the hell am i going with this you might ask? well if you're still following along, please continue to read. and if you have any input for any of this information..references to studies done on the subject, please let me know. i would love to know if my half baked theory actually holds merit.
there must be something in our dna that controls both the output, and reaction to, the pheromones that our bodies omit. so on a genetic level, would a mutation of the gene that controls how we react pheromones cause a person to be attracted to a member of the same sex, not only on a physical level, but a chemical level as well? this whole idea is to understand that not all homosexuals have chosen a lifestyle that makes them favor the same sex. are some people just born with it? i do understand that some people may favor same sex relationships based on prior experience, but if on a genetic level, if someone has a mutation of the gene that controls how are bodies react to members of the opposite sex, that would cause them to be attracted to a member of the same sex.
i almost feel like i'm rambling incoherently...and i blame adhd for that.
basically i'm saying that there has to be something in the bodies chemistry that controls our chemical attraction to other people. some people are born with the reactions that would be seen as typical, meaning attracted to the opposite sex. some people may be born with the reaction of being attracted to the same sex.
i'm not sure how to explain it further...please see my above statement of me being uneducated and lazy. if you understand what i'm trying to say then kudos to me.
where would this fit into natural selection?
well, that's simple enough. if two members of the same sex are attracted to each other and have no interest in the opposite sex, well they won't reproduce under normal circumstances will they? in todays world that doesn't have to be the case as children can be conceived through no sexual contact but in the animal kingdom, this gene wouldn't be passed on to any next generation since gay dogs, for instance, don't have the capability to reproduce through homosexual activities (btw i've seen a gay dog before. the gay dog tries to mount a straight dog and it usually ends with a doggy hate crime...or a hose).
and i'll also say that gay people seem to make great parents. i think this stems from a better understanding of what human love is and better care and love is given to children that are raised by gay parents. at least that's how i've seen it in my experience. if a gay couple does not want to conceive a child through natural or unnatural means, adoption is a popular choice and one that i back completely, since as i stated above, there seems to be a better understanding of our human emotions that control our love and care.
if you've made it this far i'll say in closing..there's nothing wrong with being attracted to members of the same sex...it may even be encoded in your dna.....just don't try to hit on me please :lol: i am very happily married.
oh and if you want jokes...i got jokes.
let them get married! they should have every right to be as miserable as any other married couple in the world! :facepalm:
for references to my education please see the requirements for your state for a GED. i will be attending college but umm...i'm a late bloomer? (also see: doesn't use proper grammar, punctuation, spelling, or capitalization)
and again any input into any type of study that may have been done on this subject is very welcome.