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On Why "Deconversion" May Be Unethical
So Hitchens and Sagan say. But I am not so certain they are right. Speaking from my own personal experience, atheism has caused me a lot of troubles. Being that happiness (long-term base-line) is my desire and goal, it seems it would have been advantageous to me to remain a theist, e.g. I would likely be doing better in school, I would likely have a girlfriend (possibly a wife) whom I care for very much, I would have a social group of "friends", my family and I would get along far better, comfort from my imaginary friend (comfort that I honestly miss, even if it were mere placebo), etc.
Whilst it is far too late for me (I can not simply choose to believe), the principle of "the golden rule", that is, doing to others what I would have done to me, says that I should not "deconvert" people, despite whatever ability I have to do so. Furthermore, "the golden rule" further dictates that I should do everything I can to turn people away from the truth seeking evidence based reason path that lead me so irrefutably and undeniably towards atheism. Indeed as quoted from Evid3nc3's latest video:
Indeed it seems undeniable that the ethical thing to do is to allow, perhaps even encourage, people to remain in blissful ignorance, but I imagine there are those here that will vociferously disagree. But it does seem that the question is a difficult one: is it better to disillusion people and cause them all the pain that comes with that, or is it better to allow them to persist in untruth and the happiness that often times comes with it?
Video here, watch from 7:23 to 8:23: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gZJYZ8E777IHitchens said:Which of us would say that we would believe something because it might cheer us up, or tell our children it was true because it might dry their eyes? Which of us indulges in wishful thinking, who really cares about the pursuit truth of all costs and at all hazards. Can it not be said, do you not in fact hear it said repeatedly, about religion and by the religious themselves that 'well, it may not be really true, the stories may be fairy tales, the history may be dubious, *but* it provides consolation." Can anyone hear themselves saying this or have it said of them without some kind of embarrassment? Without the concession the thinking here is directly wishful? That yes it would be nice if you could throw your sins and your responsibilities on someone else, and have them dissolved, but it's not true!
From The Demon-Haunted World, source: http://www.positiveatheism.org/hist/quotes/sagan.htmCarl Sagan said:It is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring.
So Hitchens and Sagan say. But I am not so certain they are right. Speaking from my own personal experience, atheism has caused me a lot of troubles. Being that happiness (long-term base-line) is my desire and goal, it seems it would have been advantageous to me to remain a theist, e.g. I would likely be doing better in school, I would likely have a girlfriend (possibly a wife) whom I care for very much, I would have a social group of "friends", my family and I would get along far better, comfort from my imaginary friend (comfort that I honestly miss, even if it were mere placebo), etc.
Whilst it is far too late for me (I can not simply choose to believe), the principle of "the golden rule", that is, doing to others what I would have done to me, says that I should not "deconvert" people, despite whatever ability I have to do so. Furthermore, "the golden rule" further dictates that I should do everything I can to turn people away from the truth seeking evidence based reason path that lead me so irrefutably and undeniably towards atheism. Indeed as quoted from Evid3nc3's latest video:
Video here, watch from 3:48 to 6:00: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgLBLJE3P-cEvid3nc3 said:At this point he did something that I found both odd and intriguing: he started firmly and almost fanatically discouraging me from having this conversation with him.
"Let me just say that I strongly feel that it is most often a grave disservice to attempt to disenchant relatively young people regarding specific religious belief. I'm very happy that my wife and I were sincere and devout christians when we were in our 20s, and well into our 30s. That orientation focused us and served us well sparing us many difficulties that our non-christian friends experienced.
"It is not to your advantage that I go on in explanations along the line that I have been. For you, if you're generally happy with the religious faith that you have, it's probably very important for you to continue in it and not sweat the details. Ultimate truths aside, there is little to be gained by going from the religiously questioning frying pan to the 'oh so that's how it works' fire. Someone with your quality of mind is going to find the answers if they keep digging, but if you're comfortable in your faith, and especially if you enjoy the company of your fellow believers more than the company of non-believers, then please, just accept the subject matter the way it is being presented to you by your pastor or priest, and concentrate your efforts on your studies.
"I recommend you not worry about evidence, one way or the other, and concentrate on the rest of your life, career, family, or whatever. Sorting out religious teachings and history is a quagmire that can only disrupt your peace of mind toward your career goals at this stage of your life. I think that it is not in your best interest to know how I think, especially since you do appear to be able to grasp my explanations. If you find Schroder's explanations satisfactory to you, then stay with them."
Indeed it seems undeniable that the ethical thing to do is to allow, perhaps even encourage, people to remain in blissful ignorance, but I imagine there are those here that will vociferously disagree. But it does seem that the question is a difficult one: is it better to disillusion people and cause them all the pain that comes with that, or is it better to allow them to persist in untruth and the happiness that often times comes with it?