JustBusiness17
New Member
Just wanted to say that I've come to the conclusion that LoR isn't a community I want to belong to anymore. It's quite clear that you guys are trying to masquerade as something that you're not and that bothers me too much to contribute anymore of my time here. This place was founded with and endures with noble intentions, but I'm afraid there has been a lack of introspection from the organizing staff which has essentially paralyzed the community from evolving beyond the desires of an unelected few. This would be perfectly acceptable if it were explicitly stated, however, LoR continues to pursue a "community first" image which is completely incompatible with the leadership style currently used to govern the organization. This grievance goes far beyond any current disagreements. I'm basing my decision to leave on my aggregate experience here with 'lack of integrity' at the very top of my concerns.
I understand that what you are trying to achieve is rather difficult considering the natural conflict between your idealistic values and the realities of managing an online community, however, the differential there is too much for me to overlook. I don't doubt that you will continue to exist as long as the controversial discussions that you promote are still around. With that being said, LoR is hardly unique in that aspect and doesn't have a monopoly (or even oligopoly) on the services it provides on the internet.
My advice to the people trying to guide LoR is to take some time for self reflection - paying special attention to your role as a leader in this community. While transactional leadership continues to be an essential aspect of any organization, I'm afraid that transformational leadership has been sadly under-utilized here. It should be noted that this is not an uncommon flaw in the world of leadership. In fact, it's rather expected based on social dominance theory. Depending on the social dominance orientation of your target audience, perhaps it's not such a bad thing, but I can assure everyone that it's definitely not my thing. The expressed values of LoR (which I tend to gravitate towards) don't mesh with the reality of the community. That type of service gap is completely unacceptable to me because it's nothing more than a deceptive business practice. My frustrations comes as a direct result of the expectations established by LoR's management which are in heavy conflict with the reality of the situation. In other words the hypocrisy of this bureaucracy is intolerable.
So- Goodbye and thank you for your contribution towards a more rational world. I just wish you could have taken a better approach to the whole thing...