Memeticemetic
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I had a lovely conversation a few hours ago with some Jehovah's Witnesses who came to my door. While obviously we disagreed quite vehemently about the nature of reality, we were able to rationally express to each other what we believe (and don't believe) in a cordial, even friendly manner. It seemed to me that they had never had a conversation of this nature with an atheist but were quite willing to listen to and understand when I explicitly defined atheism and agnosticism and why I would be considered both and that they are not mutually exclusive. We even reached some consensus on the goals of communication, science, and morality, if not on the origins of them.
Discussions like the one I had are vital for understanding and I began to lament the dearth of such dialogue I find on the net. Is it the lack of visceral feedback one gets from communicating relatively anonymously behind a computer screen that leads to a breakdown in civility? If I can't see the effects my words are having will my words tend to be more harsh and unnecessary critical? If my goal is mutual understanding then is talking to others on the web counter-productive, or is it simply good training for when I have the conversations in the real world that matter much more? Any thoughts?
Discussions like the one I had are vital for understanding and I began to lament the dearth of such dialogue I find on the net. Is it the lack of visceral feedback one gets from communicating relatively anonymously behind a computer screen that leads to a breakdown in civility? If I can't see the effects my words are having will my words tend to be more harsh and unnecessary critical? If my goal is mutual understanding then is talking to others on the web counter-productive, or is it simply good training for when I have the conversations in the real world that matter much more? Any thoughts?