Hello fellow sacks of rancid meat and dirty water,
I was recently confronted with the situation of attempting to comfort someone after the death of their friend. Now, I am a life long atheist, and some would say borderline nihilist, and due to being stubborn about maintaining this stance even when pretending "they're somewhere better" would comfort this person more (possibly) I was forced to come up with something on the spot. The following is the message I sent them and I wanted to know if this would be at all comforting to anyone who just lost a love one.
I was recently confronted with the situation of attempting to comfort someone after the death of their friend. Now, I am a life long atheist, and some would say borderline nihilist, and due to being stubborn about maintaining this stance even when pretending "they're somewhere better" would comfort this person more (possibly) I was forced to come up with something on the spot. The following is the message I sent them and I wanted to know if this would be at all comforting to anyone who just lost a love one.
We are all star dust. The planet we live on is star dust. The planets we see in the sky are star dust. The plants, the animals, the water, the rock... all star dust.
In that way, we are all connected through the giver of all life and all non-life, the sun. The electrical impulses that animate your friend may be gone, but his matter will be reconfigured into a infinite number of new forms. If you knew this person in real life and hung out with him, you have absorbed countless grams of his physical matter through the inhalation of the gasses his body produced and the particulate matter that his body shed every second of every day.
You and your friend are one, in a sense, so he's not really gone.