borrofburi
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TOO LONG DIDN'T READ VERSION: read the bolded bits.
I've believed (and said) for a long time that the best (possibly the only) way to get someone "deconvert" from religion/creationism is by tricking them into critically evaluating the evidence themselves. You can critique their evidence all you want, but they just won't get it. They have to do it themselves (otherwise they won't understand, not really), but that's quite difficult since by definition they believe it, so why go through the effort of critiquing it when you already believe/know it to be true?
A common theme you'll find among "deconverts" like myself is that we set out to "prove those motherfuckers [atheists] wrong". For me it was a similar concept: I set out to find or assemble arguments that would, at least, hold ground against staunch non-believers (win over the audience). I knew they had to be good, no bullshitting. So every argument I encountered or created I viciously attacked, pretending I was a rabid coldhearted logical atheist... And every argument without fail fell to my dramaturgical critical atheist self. It was my own criticisms of religious arguments that annihilated the intellectual foundation for my own religious beliefs.
Dusty Smith (youtube: CultOfDusty) had a similar experience, where atheists bastards mocked him, so he set out to "prove those motherfuckers wrong" with good sound arguments (else he be made a fool again), and as a result found, as did I, that religious arguments are insubstantial. See this video:
I've always been anti-mocking... I tend to find it to be alienating (as in "holy crap that guy is an asshole, I don't want to be associated with that jerk in any way at all"), and thus counterproductive. But I've always thought that you had to somehow convince or trick people into critically evaluating their own arguments, and I've always wondered if there is a good way to do this.
So... perhaps mocking people is one method to convince people to prove us wrong with good arguments (lest they just be mocked again)... Which all leads me to this question: does mocking have a purpose? Certainly it can be alienating... But it seems it may be a valuable tool to inspire that necessary approach of "I'm going to prove all you motherfuckers wrong with really strong arguments!"
I've believed (and said) for a long time that the best (possibly the only) way to get someone "deconvert" from religion/creationism is by tricking them into critically evaluating the evidence themselves. You can critique their evidence all you want, but they just won't get it. They have to do it themselves (otherwise they won't understand, not really), but that's quite difficult since by definition they believe it, so why go through the effort of critiquing it when you already believe/know it to be true?
A common theme you'll find among "deconverts" like myself is that we set out to "prove those motherfuckers [atheists] wrong". For me it was a similar concept: I set out to find or assemble arguments that would, at least, hold ground against staunch non-believers (win over the audience). I knew they had to be good, no bullshitting. So every argument I encountered or created I viciously attacked, pretending I was a rabid coldhearted logical atheist... And every argument without fail fell to my dramaturgical critical atheist self. It was my own criticisms of religious arguments that annihilated the intellectual foundation for my own religious beliefs.
Dusty Smith (youtube: CultOfDusty) had a similar experience, where atheists bastards mocked him, so he set out to "prove those motherfuckers wrong" with good sound arguments (else he be made a fool again), and as a result found, as did I, that religious arguments are insubstantial. See this video:
I've always been anti-mocking... I tend to find it to be alienating (as in "holy crap that guy is an asshole, I don't want to be associated with that jerk in any way at all"), and thus counterproductive. But I've always thought that you had to somehow convince or trick people into critically evaluating their own arguments, and I've always wondered if there is a good way to do this.
So... perhaps mocking people is one method to convince people to prove us wrong with good arguments (lest they just be mocked again)... Which all leads me to this question: does mocking have a purpose? Certainly it can be alienating... But it seems it may be a valuable tool to inspire that necessary approach of "I'm going to prove all you motherfuckers wrong with really strong arguments!"