fenyx said:i thought i should add one little thing.
its a general consensus amongst those that i know who are different in respect to sexuality and gender that the most offensive term is "homosexual".
because according to our perceptions of both gender and sexuality, the term is woefully inadequate to describe the reality.
Is there a better term for describing the continuum of sexuality rather than the, well, man/man woman/woman sexing aspect? I ask out of pure curiosity and because I love new words.